The Violet star first met the comedian at Seth Meyers‘ wedding in 2013 and considered herself a fan. But it wasn’t until this year, which started with Mulaney in rehab and still married to his wife Anna Marie Tendler, that they became both a couple and parents, welcoming their first child on Nov. 24.

“She got to date me right out of recovery, which is what they call a reverse catch,” Mulaney, who filed for divorce from Tendler in July, quipped during a Sept. 7 appearance on Late Night With Seth Meyers. “I got into this relationship that’s been really beautiful with someone incredible who has like, dealt with the non-coked up Bambi version of me, and that’s been very incredible and she’s kind of held my hand through that hell. And we are having a baby, together.”

Acknowledging how it all kinda looked to outsiders, Munn told the Los Angeles Times in November, “It’s definitely not foreign for me to have people speculate incorrectly about things and to have rumors run rampant in one way.”

Moreover, she added, “They think they know our relationship so well. When in reality, they don’t. There’s no way anyone could know what any of his relationships were or what our relationship is.”